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December 28 为什么为什么你爱的人不爱你， 而你不爱的人却那么死心踏地的爱你。。。
爱一个不爱你的人总是辛苦的，
为何不试着去爱那位深爱你的人呢？
Please pardon my poor written Chinese....
The farewell letterA very sad poetry....grips my heart...
The farewell letterBy Geoff Tims You said you loved me, I was the one, The one for you as you were for me, We had plans, dreams and a future, A future of children, memories and old age, I now have nothing. I saw you but you did not see me, I gave you my home, my heart and my future, October 19 How to be romantic? Lessons #13 & #14#13 - If your partner has a pet that she adores, at Christmas, in addition to buying a gift for your partner, buy a small present for her pet. #14 - Go for a walk on the beach. Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down. October 16 How to be romantic? Lessons #11 & #12#11 - Buy a small decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card.
Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card:
#12 - When your partner has had a really long hard day, run a hot bath for her. Pour some fragrant bath oil into the tub and gently bathe her from head to toe. Carry her into the bedroom. Gently towel her dry and tuck her into a freshly made bed with a kiss on the forehead.
How to be romantic? Lessons #9 & #10#9 - Drive into the country, find a grassy hill and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds. Play the kid’s game of looking for shapes in the cloud formations.
#10 - If your partner has to work late, take a lunch box and fill it with some of her favorite things such as chocolates, herbal tea, cookies, a small teddy bear. Next, get a piece of paper and write
Draw a big red cross below this and stick the paper to the top of the box. Tell your partner to open the box when things get really tough.
Formula for do-it-yourself Thai Iced TeaFrom now on, my favourite drink will no longer be green tea & milo iced, but Thai Iced Tea & Green Tea Latte! Got to forget the past that brings back old memories! Thai Iced Tea
October 15 Let me be this man.If you would give me the chance, I would give my best to be that man for you.... 如果一个男人真的爱你, 他的手机会 为你24小时开机, 在你最需要他的时候可以随时找到他, 因为他爱你, 所以会时时担心你 如果一个 男人爱你, 他会很自豪的告诉他的朋 友与家人你是他最爱的女人, 当然并不是时时挂在嘴上, 而是用 一种行动去告诉别人, 你是他最爱的 女人！ 因为有了你他觉得很骄傲,无论你是不是真的很优秀 。。。 如 果一个男 人真的爱你, 他会把除了工作之外的 很多时间都给你,当然会偶尔和朋友 去聚会, 因为 他想时时刻刻都看见你。 如 果一个男人真的爱你, 他会毫不吝啬 的给你物质上的付出（我并不是说所 有的女孩子都应该物质化,这种付出是他心甘情愿的） 因为他觉得他所有 辛苦的努力就是为了让你过上很幸福 的生活, 他爱你,不想让你过的那么 艰苦 如果一个男人真的爱你 , 他绝对不会骂你, 在你很 任性的时候任你发泄, 当你任性过去 的时候, 会很委屈的说：“老婆,我 又作错什么了？你可以告诉我,我一 定改,千万不要生气,那样会把 身体气坏的” 如果一个男人真的爱你, 你会发现你和他在一起后,不经意间发现你 总有很多 穿不完的衣服 , 而此时你会发现他的裤子上有个小 洞洞, 他会很解嘲的说：“现在不是 流行乞丐服吗？再说 男人要有内涵, 穿那么好干什么？” 呵呵,因为他总 是看见漂亮的东西就买给你。 如果一个男人真的爱你, 他就不在 乎陪你逛街会浪费他多少出去自由的机 会,因为他甘愿失去 那种所谓的自由。。 如果一 个男人真 的爱你, 无论你们在一起多 久, 都会陪你 一起爬山,看海,看星星,看日落, 因为他知道你渴望这样的浪漫。。。 如果一个男人真的爱你, 他 绝对不会嚷嚷着叫你去减肥, 但是这 个时候你自己一定要去健康减肥, 因 为苗条的女人确实可以叫人赏心悦目。 因为你的健康是他最关心的。 如果 一个男人真的爱你, 他不会 留恋与网络与别的小妹眉甜言蜜语, 因为对你他都有说不完的爱, 哪有那 心思和别人废话。。。 如果 一个男人真的爱你, 他不会还和前女 友很密切联系, 虽说分手了还是朋友 , 在她困难的时候可以去帮助她,但是不会超过朋友的底线。。 如果一个男人 真的爱你, 他 在每天很辛苦的工作回到家的时候, 会抱着你说“老婆,我回来了” 他爱 你,他绝对不会把不快乐带给你！ 如 果一个男人真的爱你, 他会 在清晨上班的时候, 亲吻你的眼睛, 满足的说：宝贝,我上班去了！” 如 果一个男人真的爱你, 他绝 对不会忍心背叛你, 无论出于什么样 的动机。。 因为在他眼里,你是最美的。。 即便你不是 如果一个男人真的爱你, 他 会在你故意说要离开的时候, 撒娇的 不和你分开, 而在你真的想离开的时 候, 就会放你走, 即便他真 的不愿意放手。 因为他爱你,只希望 你幸福。。。 如果一个男人 真的爱你, 那么你会比他的事业更重 要, 他绝对不会已事业为借口推脱你 。。。 如果一个男人真的爱 你, 他不会陪这所谓的客户去做所谓 的应酬, (很多男人把找小姐说是谈 生意需要） 他宁可不要这个业务, 世界上又不是只有这个业务。 。。 如果一个男人真的爱你 , 他绝对不会一次次把你推向那冰冷 的手术台, 更不会让你一个人孤孤单 单的去走向那冰冷的世界,他会 郑重的说：“把我们的宝贝生下来吧 ！” 如果一个男人真的爱你 , 他会象爱他家人那样爱你的家人, 也会尊重你的亲人和朋友 如 果一个男人真的爱你。 。 那 么,那么,那么, 请你珍惜好他 ,好好爱他, 为他改掉所有的小姐脾 气, 好好的心疼他,理解他,鼓励他 ,支持他！ October 13 Beijing! Here I come...Dear Diary,
You are my only listener when I'm without an audience...
The party tonight has been cancelled. The party animals are on-flight to Europe for their next week biz meetings. I'm alone for the weekend. Its okay to be alone. But its tragic to feel lonely. How true...
And loneliness griped my heart and seared through my soul as it does so very often nowadays....
I can't help but wonder if men are born to be contradictory....I should be happy at my decision to relocate to Beijing.... I've managed to negotiate a very good package against the norm..... I should be happy to leave behind the heartbreak affairs.... but why the feeling of sadness....why the sudden feeling of lost....a thinkle of sadness lingers deep down in my soul....I supposed I still have a soul left....don't laugh at me please, dear diary...
I should move to Beijing...there is nothing left behind worth staying back for in this heartbreak island.
My life story again, dear diary. You got to know me more....
I was suppose to be back to Singapore enroute Zurich but the earlier connecting flight was cancelled. As such, I had to stay overnight in Zurich and catch the next day's flight. Somehow I had a strong feeling the turn of event in my life must be for a purpose. And we met. She came into my life on that flight back from Zurich.
We had a great time chatting. I felt intriguing chemistry between us. She is unique, not the very good-looking or gorgeous kind but presentable and charming in her own way. Somehow what she does for me on that flight captivated my heart. The pamperedness I was lavished makes me want her to be by my side all my life....its a strange feeling that is beyond any word to describe. No doubt SQ treats its PPS club members really good but deep down in my heart I was yearning her attentiveness and constant eye contacts was for a reason....a liking perhaps....and that its more than just her job and her duty...
Is this love at first sight? Is this destiny? Is this merely infatuation? Or is this wishful thinking?
Before the flight landed, I asked if there is anyway we can continue the enjoyable conversation we've had in a different time, at a different place where she no longer has to address me by my last name. She asked for my namecard. My heart sank. A method they usually use inorder not to give out their contact number to guys they aren't interested in. Luckily my namecards aren't in my hand carry luggage and she wrote down her number for me. My heart was beating so fast. Its not my first time asking girls for numbers but this time round I don't know why it meant so much to me that I was so afraid to lose touch.... did someone once said it takes 3 mins to fall in love?...
Anyway, she came into my life. She completely disrupted my plans. She sends ripples in the still water as they said.... its not her fault. Its mine. I stopped my routine life and my well planned-out days..... I stopped doing what I planned to achieve.... All I could do all days....is to think about her...When I comes to falling in love, I am like a high school boy...
Finally I expressed my liking for her.....she rejected.... She says she's not ready for another relationship... Why must I be so 痴情? Why must I drowned mysef in sorrows for the last two months? Why must I feel so much for her when she feels nothing for me? When she merely treats me like a normal friend...
I know, it only boils down to a single fact - that I'm not the one she is looking for. For if I am, she would ready herself for the relationship no matter what. Fresh air after the heavy downpour this afternoon fills the atmosphere...the smell give a feeling of a fresh start. Yes, I should move on with my life now...
张靓颖 - 我们说好的Another sad sad song.....
Lyric:
好吗, 一句话就哽住了喉
城市, 当背景的海市蜃楼 我们, 像分隔成一整个宇宙 再见, 都化作乌有 我们说好决不放开相互牵的手 可现实说过有爱还不够 走到分岔的路口 你向左我向右 我们都倔强地不曾回头 我们说好就算分开一样做朋友 时间说我们从此不可能再问候 人群中再次邂逅 你变得那么瘦 我还是沦陷在你的眼眸 yiya yiya~~~
我们说好一起老去看细水常流 却将会成为别人的某某 又到分岔的路口 你向左我向右 我们都强忍着不曾回头 我们说好下个永恒里面再碰头 爱情会活在当时光节节败退后 下一次如果邂逅 你别再那么瘦 我想一直沦陷在你的眼眸 这是无可救药爱情的荒谬 阿杜 - 差一点You can download this song here:
Lyrics....
差一点你就是我的女人
差一些手牵手的完整 却在对的时间错过对的人 抓不住幸福时分 遇上了错的人渐渐的吻在她无心的嘴唇
感觉像一个旅程走完了就分 错过了对的人, 决定就只在那一秒那一分 爱情的岔口, 你是我等不到的路人 差一点你就是我的女人 差一些就和你共度一生 因为对的时间对的人 就值得我为你奋不顾身 差一点你就是我的女人 差一些手牵手的完整 却在对的时间错过对的人 抓不住幸福时分 错过了对的人 决定就只在那一秒那一分 如果没缘分 我也会固执的为你一人 差一点你就是我的女人 差一些就和你共度一生 因为对的时间对的人 就值得我为你奋不顾身 差一点你就是我的女人 差一些手牵手的完整 却在对的时间错过对的人 抓不住幸福时分 October 12 How to be romantic? Lessons #7 & #8It seems I haven't updated my blog with this entry for last two days so here you go, another two more ideas! #7 - Buy a stylish hand mirror and give it to your partner as a gift. Include a card in the box saying
#8 - While walking with your partner on a weekend getaway, pick up a smooth stone and say that you're going to keep it as a special memento of your trip. Later, have a message such as
engraved into the stone by a jeweler and give it to your partner.
How to be romantic? Lessons #5 & #6Here's another two tips... #5 - Take a book that your partner is reading and using a pencil, underline letters in a section of the book she has yet to read to spell out a love letter. For example in the following exert from a novel, the underlined letters come together to spell out the secret message "I love you": The palace was a labyrinth, their passage through it tortuous and interminable. Initially they passed from building to building under the sodden sky. Steve's feet ached; he might have laughed at himself, the tireless traveler, grown too soft from his months in the city to walk any proper distance. Abruptly the guards halted. The underlined letters will make your partner curious and with a bit of luck she will write them down. Spend time to encode a proper message such as "Dear Juirine, I love you honey!" #6 - Drive into the country, find a grassy hill and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds. Play the kid’s game of looking for shapes in the cloud formations. If you live in a city like Singapore where there's no country-side nor grassy hill, go to the botanical garden! Lotsa grass to lie down over there! Stay tune for the next batch! Marriage jittersMaria just got married and being a traditional Italian, she was still a virgin. So, on her wedding night, staying at her mother's house, she was nervous! Her mother reassured her, "Don't worry, Maria, Tony's a good man, go upstairs and he'll take care of you!"
So up the stairs she went. When she got upstairs, Tony took off his shirt and exposed his hairy chest. Maria ran downstairs to her mother, "Mama, mama, Tony's got a big hairy chest."
"Don't worry, Maria," said her mother. "All good men have hairy chests. Go upstairs and Tony will take care of you!"
So, up she went again! When she got there, Tony took off his pants exposing his hairy legs. Again, Maria ran downstairs to her mother. "Mama,mama, Tony took off his pants and he's got hairy legs!"
Her mother replied,"Don't worry Maria, all good men have hairy legs. Tony's a good man, go upstairs and he will take good care of you."
So, up she went again. When she got there, Tony took off his socks, and on his left foot he was missing three toes. When Maria saw this, she ran downstairs. "Mama, mama, Tony's got a foot and a half!"
"Stay here and stir the sauce dear," says the mother. "This is a job for Mama!"
October 10 F.I.R - 月牙湾Totally dig this song by F.I.R....
This is definitely going into my ride's CD folder! Need it for the increasingly unbearable singapore peak hour traffic...
Lyric, song, whatever you like can be found here:
Enjoy!
敦煌古墓的沙粒
带着我们的际遇 我从半路看回去 这秦关漫漫好蜿踞 梦想穿过了西域 包含了多少的缠意 爱情像一本游记 我会找寻它的密语 看..月牙湾下的泪光 在丝路之上被遗忘 是谁的心啊孤单的留下 他还好吗我多想爱他 那永恒的泪那一句话 也许可能蒸发 是谁的爱啊又为谁降下 轻声呼唤就让我融化 那一滴雨水演化成我翅膀 向着我爱的人追吧 梦想穿过了西域 包含了多少的缠意 爱情像一本游记 我会找寻它的密语 看..月牙湾下的泪光 在丝路之上被遗忘 是谁的心啊孤单的留下 他还好吗我多想爱他 那永恒的泪那一句话 也许可能蒸发 是谁的爱啊又为谁降下 轻声呼唤就让我融化 那一滴雨水演化成我翅膀 向着我爱的人追吧 是谁的心啊孤单的留下 他还好吗我多想爱他 那永恒的泪那一句话 也许可能蒸发 是谁的爱啊又为谁降下 轻声呼唤就让我融化 那一滴雨水演化成我翅膀 向着我爱的人追吧
Found this blog hosting site!Found this blog hosting site. http://www.pixnet.net/blg/
Quite nice templates the website provides. I'll find time to move "house" soon....
October 09 How to be romantic? Lessons #3 & #4Becos' I'm so lazy to update my blog on a daily basis, so I'm gonna provide you with two tips each time I update it.
 Its a good deal I know. So here goes...
#3 - Buy a packet of glow in the dark stars and stick the stars on the roof above her bed to spell out a message such as "Juirine, I Love You". When the lights go down, your message will be revealed!
#4 - Buy the domain name of your partner's name if it is available for example www.24thchromosome.com. Create a web page containing a romantic poem and a picture of a rose. When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask whether she has ever checked to see whether her domain name is taken. Let her type it in to discover her page.
If you like these ideas, send me a message to let me know! Ciao!
October 07 What does your birth date mean?Do you believe this sort of thing? Maybe I should change my car's color to Silver....but I still prefer black and orange.....
How to be romantic? Lessons #1 & #2To all the guys out there, on a daily basis, I will share with you one way/idea to be romantic. Let's see if this online course takes us through into next year. For a start, and since today is a boring sunday, yours truly shall furnish you an extra bonus to make it two.
#1 - If your partner is going away for a few days, tell her that you are worried about her so you have hired a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a small teddy bear.
#2 - On a special occasion, buy your partner eleven fresh, red roses and one artificial red rose. Place the artificial rose in the center of the bouquet. Attached a card that says:
"I will love you until the last rose fades."
That's all for today folks. Until next time, stay tune for your daily dose of romantic idea!
My Lasik evaluationAfter weeks of anticipation, the day finally came for my lasik evaluation. The refractive surgeon was quite a well-known figure in this field. His clinic was packed. Appointment certainly doesn't help in anyway to short cut the queue...
After an hour plus of waiting, I went through a series of tests where my pitiful eyes were put under the trauma of flashing bright lights and pupil dilating eyedrops. Vision was blurred for the next 2 hours. I was informed that my results qualified me as an ideal candidate for traditional lasik thanks to 4.5mm pupil, 580 microns Cornea thickness and low myopia/astig.
Now comes my long-awaited chance for clarifying those complications written in mutitudes of articles against lasik. The counselor, when going through a dozen of "true" and "false" routine statements about lasik, pushes the ball to the doctor at my seemingly knowlegeable questioning. But its obvious he doesn't have the patience to even give them a thought.
When its time for me to go through the results with the doctor, he too, did the same. It was disappointing to say the least. Request for complication rate record was met with a change of subject. Even with myopic eyes closed, I can smell the chase is after the money. So much for well-being of patient!
Not sure if I can call this visit a blessing in disguise as "Retinal Tear" was diagnosed in one of the eyes. I was told...
- Retinal tear occurs in 1 out of every 100 patients (true?) - mine was a minor tear but it can lead to "shadow effect" and utimately blindness if goes untreated (true?) I was asked to go through a simple, no-complication day surgery "Argon laser something something"....and I would be given a good discount if I do it that day. I was then hurried out the door for the next patient but I was determined to ask my last imposing question. Why was he still wearing spectacles when lasik was the key service offering of his clinic? Doesn't he believe in what he perform on his patient?
He was stunt for a split second and out came these words...."the flap never heals...even ten years later if someone accidentally touch your eyeball, the flap may breakoff and serious complications may result." "If ever I were to do lasik, it'll be epi-lasik which is a different procedure and no cutting of flap."
"But but but....doesn't Epi-lasik shave away the important bowman layer and Epithelium? Without bowman layer, structure of the eye would be compromise isn't that so?" "Well, bowman layer and Epithelium will grow back in 5 days. Now if you can excuse me its a busy day today. I can answer all your questions in your next appointment."
I left the place with my pocket poorer by 100 bucks for lasik evaluation and another thousand plus for the Argon laser. Well, to console myself at least I've gotten what I came for i.e. that traditional lasik is completely out for me. If to improve one part of my body, I will be causing damage to other part, is certainly something I know I never will come to term with.
And now, more research on Epi-lasik to verify the claim that bowman layer and Epithelium does grow back. Wish me luck, lotsa it. I'll like to believe the good news.
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